Friday, March 20, 2015

What's the problem with Tyler Perry Movies?

I think TP is talented and expressive, yet I also find his movies to be rather limited, and one dimensional. But the primary problem with his movies are the horrific depictions of bw. Case in point, in one movie, ( trying to remember which one, as they are all so much alike) He has a famous bw  actress playing a common baby Momma, and keep in mind, she did not just have one out of wedlock child, But THREE by 3 different men! In another movie, actually many BW are relegated to bitchy, subservient, fat slob, or other undesirable roles. Keep in mind, those of you who think "Oh it's just a movie-it doesn't matter!" That Image = reality for many people. They believe what they see most often. This is why other groups staunchly fight for their image like their lives depended on it. Because they have the sense to know what many silly AA don't know. The QUALITY  of your life often does indeed, depend on the images ppl hold in their minds, of you! The most blatant example of TP's internal (covert hatred) for bw was probably "The Family that preys together" If you will notice, He deliberately used many of the same actresses that were in "Something new" I'm sure he, like many bm hated that movie, and he decided to make a new bm version. You will notice that in the bm version, the handsome wm is only enjoying her sexually, and has no intentions of making her his Ms. (bm should know all about that) You will also notice that his wife comes into the hotel room and makes fun of her. Sanai Lathem (sp?) plays a beautiful executive who for some God forsaken reason marries some loser who basically wants her to pay for everything, steals her money (which only a fool would have put in a joint acct!) and slaps her bodily over a table when he finds out she is cheating on him. He uses her money (she got from her white lover) to start a successful business, takes their son, who is not biologically his, and leaves her with nothing. This is TP idea of a  happy ending. This is how he thinks it should go for bw. No love,  no good life, just left out in the cold...

Bw you must not allow racio-misogynistic men like TP determine how bw are portrayed. We must take our image in our own hands. We must refuse to give our money (keep in mind 70% of the wealth in the bc is in the pockets of BW! BW whole industries, companies, and businesses are built around your dollars! Learn to make your money work for you bw, refuse to tolerate ppl who demean, disparage, and disrespect you...

Thursday, February 19, 2015

BW ....Waking up-finally


 John Mckane with wife Cindy. His son and black daughter in law.


Well its 2015! A whole new year and hopefully to the smarter ladies, a whole new life.  Welcome back everyone. I know it's been awhile, but I am really looking forward to a whole new start. It's my dream that bw everywhere should be in loving, wholesome and fulfilling relationships that culminate in marriage. Because lets face it. SMART WOMEN know that although marriage is not perfect, it is the best institution they've invented thus far, as relationships go. Any man claiming to be so in love with you but unwilling to marry you, should be given a wide girth.


Its wonderful to see so many beautiful bw getting the memo and stepping outside the box. Recently a friend a mine who was a sworn bm-only type of woman recently married a white man! Miracles never cease! I'm seeing many more (bm-only) types expanding their horizons, and it's wonderful...
I think more and more bw are finally waking up. Thank the heavens above.


I think one of the main contributing factors in this new shift, are garbage pail ppl like Tommy S. and men of his ilk all over youtube inventing horrible new names for bw, and saying the most vile things. Many bw finally began to wake up and see what they and their daughters had to look forward to. You know they said nothing is so powerful as an idea whose time has come. Well it's definitely time for bw to branch out, and find men who can truly love them, and not despise, denigrate, and vilify them because they look like them! But just let me say again, I'm so proud of you ladies for opening up your lovely eyes, and really beginning to wake up....