Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Super good looking man or a super good man?

Wolfgang Puck and wife

Some women will do anything for a piece of eye candy. They'll put up with cheating, disrespect, and even outright abuse. Some women are worse then men when it comes to being a sucker for a pretty face. Smart ladies understand that beautiful faces are fleeting, the only "beauty" you should insist your man possess is the internal kind.Yes I know that sounds corny, but trust me, you can learn to love the homeliest face if you only focus on the heart.
The truth of the matter is most husbands rarely look like David Beck, or Viggo Morteson, they look like everyday men who fell in love. I see lonely women everyday who refuse to date men unless they were in the realm of Idris Elba, or Brad Pitt. This is utterly ridiculous as of us would be furious if men expected us look like Beyonce or Angelina. Most women also do not understand that the way to a man's heart is not his stomach, like your momma taught you, but his ego, and self image. For instance, look at the hottie above. How many times a day do you think women swoon over him and remind him how 'hot' he is?  Chances are, its an everyday occurrence.

If you wanted to stand out with someone like this, the last thing you'd want to do is walk up to him and start drooling like a groupie. He's probably so tired of that type of attention, it's probably beyond boring to him. A much better technique would be to really come across as someone completely different, down to earth, not interested in his looks at all, and seemingly not impressed by them. If he's worth dating at all, he'll probably be intrigued by your apathetic attitude toward his looks. Notice, I said IF he's worth dating. Unfortunately alot of men who look like this are simply NOT worth dating. Reason being  is that they are so hung up and stuck on themselves they cannot see straight. Not perhaps it's not fair to pick on men with super looks. After all, both Viggo and David B seem to be great husbands to their very lucky wives, but I definitely think they are the exceptions rather than the rule. So don't discard the pretty boys as no good right off the bat. But don't waste alot of time on them either ladies. Here are some quick starter tips when trying to catch the eye of very exclusive quarry....

1. Wear an expensive perfume. Perfume has the ability to make you feel a certain way, ie sexy, sensual, rich etc. So you really want to put yourself in the state of feeling good, and perfume can definitely help.

2. Excercise. Nothing seems to bring out the 'I feel good' hormones as much as excercise. It's also great for digestion, making you look, and feel younger, slimming you down, regulating the heart and circulation, giving you a glow, giving you a bounce in your step etc.

3. Do something really nice for yourself. I don't know what gets your pulse jumping-but you do! Maybe it's watching old movies, or dancing around the room. Maybe it's a quiet walk in the park, or a glass of wine. You know what the thing is that makes you happy to wake up in the morning. reward yourself and do it! It will get you serene, and contented.  And this contentment will be 'felt' in your presence...

4.Learn to FLIRT!!! Flirting is sooooo uber-important in the mating dance! I see so many lovely bw and they have NO clue how to flirt. Listen to me because I am going to introduce you to the master of flirting and seduction! Go to YT and watch the master do it. Type in Diana Ross and watch her work! This lady could give Ginie Polo a run for her money and how to pull a rich man! She is the absolute best! Also watch how in love poor Michael was with her, and how he practically turned into a lit Xmas tree whenever she was near! Insiders say she was so effortless at making men fall for her (many times without trying!) that women used to forbid their husbands from going near her! She's what the earthy people call " A Bad Bitch!"  So If you cannot pin down the magic that Ms Ross exudes so naturally, then go to Amazon and buy a few books hun, You'll catch on...

5. I'm going to stop at 5 today because I promised myself I would get this blog back up and running, and If i make the posts too long, it will be a difficult promise to keep as I plan to post 2x per week. So without further adieu, The main thing that will attract men of all income levels, looks, skill and position, is CONFIDENCE. It's one  of the most attractive qualities a woman can have. Now, if you don't have it, -get it! Go get training in SOMETHING that will ignite a fire of confidence and excitement inside you. Be special at something! Everybody has been given talents and abilties to do something in this world. Find out what that thing is for you. If you have no idea. then grab a sheet of paper and ask yourself  ' what do I like to do?  what am I interested in? What would I be willing to do for free? Find that certain something that sets you apart girl and make it an integral part of your life....

Thank you for tuning in, Come back in a few days, and we'll learn how to: Get a man's attention so intensely, he does not even see other women!!!

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