Wednesday, May 31, 2017

Black women - You are NOT Bitches and Hoes!!!

 Ladies, be somebody's BABY, not their BITCH!!!

In cruising YT over the last couple of months. I've heard damaged ass bm refer to bw as bitches,
hoes, hat hats, and much worse names. Young ladies (and older ladies)  I want you to know that you ARE under attack, but you do not have to stay in enemy territory!

And make no mistake about it, to SOME, unfortunately MANY bm, you are indeed the enemy. I honestly believe many bm unconsciously blame bw for making them black, instead of realizing that blackness is a blessing! Life is a blessing. One that is not promised to any of us, and that is why we cannot afford to waste it.
Trying to turn a damaged man into husband material is a complete waste of life and time! You will NOT be able to do it. I was lurking on a site in which a bm was parroting all forms of disrespect toward bw, and calling us everything but a child of God. I, as well as a couple of other bw tried nicely (and futilely) to talk to him to no avail. He was mired in hatred and misogyny. He was a LPDM (Life poisoning- damaged man) and he was busily trying to blame every problem black men have/had on black women. Ladies, don't ever throw good time after bad with T.S&UMs  (Thugs, Slugs, and Useless men!  Life is just too short! When any woman tried to talk to him about his attitude, he was immediately in his feelings (isn't that what they say women do?) Anyway, as soon as a woman would say something to he and his fellow combatants, she was immediately labelled a bitch, whore, slut, and the like. Ladies, the time to leave this kind of misogyny behind was YESTERDAY! And the scariest part of all this is how many male losers ( who are already looking for someone to blame for lack of progress in life, anyway. Are so quick to jump on the bandwagon of a loser black male telling them that all their problems are the fault of a black woman! Someone explain that to me, when the man is supposed to be the head of the community! So how could all the problems be the fault of a woman? For instance, ignorant remarks like -Don't date single mothers!  Don't try to turn a hoe into a housewife! Don't marry those hoes, just F^ck them! This is all internalized misdirected hate and anger! They are too cowardly to fight the white men who they feel are making them powerless, and immobile, so they transfer the hate onto ppl weaker than them! Women and children. This is why you have cops killing bm in the streets, but INSTEAD of  organizing and addressing the problem of police violence, they will start screaming about bw wearing WEAVES!!! All over the Internet bm are screaming about bw wearing weaves instead of addressing the issues that could save their own lives!!! SMH!

Ladies, you have GOT to leave these damaged beyond repair creatures alone!! Avoid disrespectful dangerous, damaged men like the plaque. Listen to me ladies, if this is what is available to you in the bc (black community) you are  1000x better off choosing a mate from another community. Whether it be white, Hispanic, or whatever else. Don't settle for a piss poor sorry excuse for a man just because he is black. And excuse horrible names, and profane attitudes because he is black either! When I saw how dejectedly bw were sadly accepting being called bitches and hoes, I KNEW I had to resurrect this blog and try to help them! You DESERVE BETTER! NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!!!

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