Tuesday, July 4, 2017

To White men looking for those gorgeous black women.... a few tips... + some wealth ideas at bottom...






Comedian Gary Owens and his wife Kenya

10 Things you should never say to a black woman!

There is a site advising white men what not to say to black women and I think some of the advice is good, and some is a bit over top. Basically, I think there is no need to be nervous and shy around us bw. Just be yourself and feel her out. We really are all different. People seem to think we all think alike, but they could not be more wrong. Just like ww, some of us are more sexually adventurous, bolder, nicer or meaner louder or softer. We vary just like other women. Just as you would feel out any other woman, you will need to feel us out. But for the most part the following lines are usually worth forgetting, if you want to build a relationship with the AVERAGE black woman. Remember to forget stereotypes....Here are a few....

1. "All black people are great dancers." Not true, and very insulting


2. "You're beautiful for a black girl" Does this sound like a compliment to you? If you think she's beautiful, say so without the racist qualifiers.



3. Can I touch your hair? Def. wait until you are in a relationship before you attempt something like this. Some bw will be cool about this, and some will tell you off...

4. "I just love black women!" This may be an innocent remark on your part, and you may just mean that you are attracted to bw. Yet most times this will come out wrong and she will immediately think you just want to sleep with a black girl. She will go on the defensive and the date will go downhill from there....


5. "I just love all those curves!" If you were a woman, how would you perceive this remark? It comes off sounding oversexed and disrespectful. Many women will walk away from you on this one. Now once you are in a LT relationship, it's perfectly ok to tell her how you love her body but never let it slip from your lips in the beginning...
6. "I never date bw, but you're something special!" You're really asking to be cursed out on this one- nuff said.


7. Why don't black men take care of their kids?" You may think this is going to start the 'black men are bad discussion' but 95% of the time it will backfire on you. As bw, even when we know brothers are doing wrong, we will rush to defend them, should a wm say anything negative about them. I don't know why so don't ask me, but it seems to be a conditioned response. Keep all your negative beliefs and opinions regarding bp secret until you two are much closer and can talk about these things without destroying the relationship....

8. Never ask: "Ever had a white guy?" You can ask her if she WOULD go out with a wg, but never ask her if she has had one. She will regard this as prying into her sexual closet, and she will be livid! She may also think you are asking to gauge how long it will take until she gives in to you. Either way, she will not appreciate it and it will most likely be a deal breaker....

9. "My best friend is black" Earth to wm, WE DON'T GIVE A DAMN! As a AA, we hear this constantly, like that means anything to us, and I can assure you, it doesn't. I know plenty of white people and even have some in my family, but how would you as a wm feel if we as bp approached you with

"yeah, I understand how you feel, my best friend is white" chances are, you would be too pissed to talk. You would probably be thinking/or say "what the hell does that have to do with me?"

10. Never make sexual /racist assumptions....
You do not know her and she is not every other bw you know. It is imperative that you see her as an individual and not as part of a group with the same mindset. Let her show you who she is, and don't assume anything.....

Wealth ideas below:

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Like I always say, million dollar ideas are floating around all the time.
You as a human being have the ability to change your circumstances any time you honestly choose to do so.... That being said lets move on to some more wealth ideas....

This is how Joe. H. came upon his million dollar idea. Remember your higher power is always ready to do the same for you....

1. Car Intermediary;

Joe could not find a job in his hometown. Since the mill had closed he had been struggling to feed his family and was on the verge of losing his home. He knew he had to come up with something. While sitting down to his meal of rice for the 3rd time that week, Joe racked his brain. His wife's face looked drawn and tight. Fear of the future had them both barely speaking anymore. Joe glanced out the front window and spied his run down Chevy. Man he wanted a new car! Hell, for that matter he wanted a new home new life ...... He just wanted to make things better for his poor wife. She had put up with so much! He watched as his disabled neighbor Benny struggled to get out of his new car. For one second Joe was jealous and the next he felt guilty. His neighbor was disabled and had been since birth. What kind of jerk would feel jealousy and anger instead of sympathy. He wiped his mouth and ran out to help Benny. Benny smiled gratefully up at Joe as he gently guided him from the car. "I had to wait 3 months for them to equip it so I could drive it and still they claim they don't have the part to help me exit it- it's so frustrating" Benny sighed. "I've been down there arguing with those people many times, and in my condition -that's a lot on me!" Joe nodded sympathetically, as he helped Benny into the house. But having a captive audience was too much for Benny. He showed Joe the mountain of paperwork, he had incurred trying to get the part that would enable him to exist freely from the car. He talked incessantly about how hard it was on him to go through this. Joe was sympathetic, but he could not help thinking-"at least you've got the money to buy that part and that car and any damn thing else you want!" But when he looked at Benny's tired face, he felt guilty. It wasn't Benny's fault he was broke and out of work. He suddenly had an idea. "Ben, whadda say I find that part for you for a fee?" he asked. Benny's face instantly brightened. "yes please -I'll gladly pay it. I'm so tired of trying to fight with these people-yes please!" Joe suddenly felt optimistic for the first time in months. He and Benny came to a fee agreement and within 2 days Joe had not only located the part but had arranged for the part to be installed in the car. He had the car back to Benny by the end of the week. Joe even had it washed he was -grateful for the fee he desperately needed. Benny, also was beside himself with gratitude. He not only paid Joe the 200.00 fee in cash, he called some of his disabled friends and referred them to Joe. Within 2 weeks Joe had a thriving business finding parts for not only disabled people but all kinds of special needs Medical, pregnancy, young, old or any kind of need. He would haggle with the dealer and save the client sometimes thousands thereby making them more than glad to pay his fee. He also made sure the cars were delivered clean and installed. Before he knew what was happening he had to turn clients away. There were just not enough hours to help everyone. He had to limit his business to 30 cars per month.But at 200.00 a pop he was making a killing and still had plenty of time to spend with his family. Now they moved from their house because they wanted to not because they had to. Joe and his family moved to a home 3x larger and bought a brand new car for both he and his wife. This is a business anyone can start. You can use newspaper ads or flyer's or just business cards. Depending on how fast you want to grow. You will need to have a large metropolitan area nearby, as it will be hard to do this in a very small town. But this can be adapted to finding homes, apartments vehicles or anything else. Use your imagination. You really do have the answers inside of you. Just ask and then listen.......But most of all -just do it!

2. Trucking to a fortune:
There is a guy my sister -in law, and I went to, to buy my brother a truck for his birthday. You know the custom made miniature trucks that men love. She actually paid 1000.00 for this truck! I could not believe it. The truck had working lights, sound and lift that actually lifted! The guy, Mike told us that this is one of his least expensive trucks! He says they sell from 800-4000! I was shocked. He showed us how he goes onto websites and takes pictures of the truck being built and how people email him with the order confirmation before the trucks are even finished. He makes over 10.000 per month doing a hobby that he absolutely loves. He says he would never work for anyone ever again and that he now has money and free time. He said very few people know about the money in this business. He has a store on eBay and he buys the trucks whole and sells them for parts because the parts are extremely hard to find. He says he started making hand made trucks because he wanted ones that were different. He also wanted to show people who bought his truck parts what they could do with the parts. The guys went crazy over his hand made trucks and they are constantly on back order. His parts business also exploded! He is now turning jobs down because he does not need more money. Isn't that a wonderful thought "to just not need any more money!" This can be you as well. Find a hobby you love. Don't bother trying to do trucks if you hate trucks -your apathy will come through, and prevent you from being successful. Pick something you love and then find communities on the Internet who share your interest. Take pictures and set up a selling email or use pay pal. People love pay pal because they feel safe knowing you do not have their personal info...This man makes 10 k per month but he could easily double that if he wanted to. He was relaxed and happy. Too many people are stressed and tired from trying to make it on a dead end job. Think outside the box, and see what you come up with....You can also write me for help remember.....

3. Letter riches;

This idea is so cute I had to include it. A few years ago, a friend of mine was the mommy of a precious little 4 year old, named Samantha. We called her Sam for short, but anyway. One day Sam wrote a letter to Santa and carefully signed it and sent it to the 'Norf poel' (as she spelled it) We thought it was cute and that she would forget about it, but everyday she ran up to the house and asked "mommy, did Santa send me mail?' I could tell my friend felt worse and worse having to tell her child the letter did not come. Finally, I went to the dollar store, bought some child's stationary and sat my friend down so we could compose a letter for Sam. Lisa, my friend was very reluctant to do this as she did not want to lie to her child. I convinced her that it was harmless and would make Sam very happy so we composed a letter and sent it to "Sam-Santa's special little friend" Sam was ecstatic when she got the letter, she read it until it was falling apart and showed it to all of her little friends. Soon Lisa was swamped with parental requests for more letters. In no time at all Lisa had a nice little sideline business writing and mailing letters all over the US. She advertises in magazines like home business, and direct mail. She charges up to 8.00 depending on how far and how much detail the letter requires. She still thanks me for starting her on this path. She loves it and makes pretty good money (about 1500.00 per week. Not bad for about 20 hours of work per month. Like I said, there are million dollar ideas floating around all the time. Lisa thinks I was the brainchild behind her idea but that thought must have occurred to her before I ever said anything! We ALL have million dollar ideas every day the point is to write them down and bring them to fruition.... PS, if you need help or advice write me at asktaylor1991@ yahoo.com (this is for my readers only!) Thanks for tuning in -until next time-TS

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