black girl cries, black men won't dance with her.... ,< click link
This video went viral, for one reason. This is what damaged, disrespectful, delinquent black men want to see! This young attractive woman would have done much better to cry into her pillow than let this mess be put on YT. Now before you think I don't care about her, and I'm being harsh, let me just say, it's the opposite! I DO CARE! and I hate that she's being made the butt of many bm's jokes as we speak. This young woman went to a Chris Brown concert, and really expected to find the kind of good, kind, self aware men, _ there, to dance with her. I could have told her to AVOID a CB concert at all costs. His fans are young, materialistic, misogynistic, color struck, usually black woman hating, disrespectful thug wannabees. I think she was tripping going there...
But the crazier part was to post her pain on YT. It's so sad to say that BW are NOT allowed to just be women.. You know to express the hurt and pain, the vulnerabilities etc. It's horrific the things that were being said about this young woman. They were calling her bald headed, ugly, black as tar, tranny, he/she, and all manner of vile filthy, undeserved names. This young woman OBVIOUSLY wanted a bm even though she has a biracial son. She's divorced and I suppose, she's looking for someone to spend her life with (as most women are) I think she should forget about color and focus on the quality of the man.
There is NO reason a man HAS to be black, but there is no reason why he should not be, if he's a good man either! I definitely want to drive that point home, It's NOT about color, it's about LOVE! If you find a wonderful guy and he's what YOU are looking for, and he's also black, Girl have at it! If' he's white, Have at it, if he's paisley pink .... You get the idea. Look for GOOD MEN. His color is irrelevant!
I want for this young lady to get off her knees, The fact that this video went viral so fast, really bothers me. Many ppl LOVE to see a black woman with tears on her face. I hate the gleeful tone so many bm had on their sites. They ripped this young woman for no reason at all. They acted like she had no right to breathe air! I mean literally, they were like rabid animals, ready to rip her to shreds!
What it that about? Shouldn't someone crying in normal life, elicit some type of compassion in normal human beings? Why would anyone feel GIDDY and DELIGHTED? But it was so obvious, these men did. and then had the nerve to rip her for being very short haired. Oh, but if she had weave down her back, they would have a serious problem with that as well.. She would have been all types of hat hatted hooligans, and a weave wearing slut. etc. It just seems that a black woman is damned if she does and damned if she doesn't. If it had been a white girl crying, I seriously doubt they would have the same reaction.. In fact I KNOW they wouldn't. I keep telling bw, that some (unfortunately many) bm hate us for making them black! They see us (oftentimes_ as the progenitor of their problems, because we are the WOMBS that made them black! A lot of bw don't believe this, I hope they don't find out under fire, that it's indeed true...
What this young girl needs to do, is write down the qualities that she is seeking in a man, and then find out where 'that type ' of man will be likely to hang out. She needs to frequent that spot, and very naturally strike up a conversation, and let nature take it's course.... Ladies please don't run after, cry after, beg after, men who (do not want you!!!") There are PLENTY of men in this world who absolutely adore bw! I see them on love sites everyday talking about how they are afraid to approach bw, but always desired to date bw.... Stop coming from a scarcity mindset. When you feel like your resources are in short supply, studies show that you are likely to go into a state of fear and irrationality. You are likely to act like this young lady, cry because she saw bm dancing with everything but bw. Or likely to scream, curse, yell, cry etc. Point being, you are likely to come off as desperate and out of control. You never want that. First of all men can smell desperation a mile away, and secondly. Your emotions are likely to be so chaotic and frazzled, that you won't be able to attract anything that you might want! Ie, you are likely to pull the garbage men, and you don't ever want them! It's so important to love yourself and allow yourself to be vulnerable, but in a safe space. YT is not that space! Too many Vampires on YT ready, willing and able to suck the life out of a bw post haste!
She should focus on herself. doing things for herself, rewarding herself, and learning to love herself. Then the man problem, will take care of itself. It's always easiest to pull that which you do NOT NEED!! This includes, money, men etc! I would advise this girl to go places with friends and just have a good time, but at the same time be very aware of the kind of man that she is looking for. I cannot imagine why she specifically wanted a bm anyway. Many of them are sooooo damaged and hateful! Esp. to darker skinned women. Why would anyone want to deal with that colorism, misogynism, and general disrespect anyway? Go places where you are likely to find a HIGHER class of men. It's foolhardy to go to a CB concert and expect to meet anything but young color struck fools there. I totally sympathize with her situations, but like I said. Don't air it for the damaged, deranged sect. Tell a good friend or family member.
Also, its important to keep in mind that SOME men will find you stunningly beautiful, and SOME won't. You cannot allow how OTHER ppl feel about you, determine how you feel about yourself! This young woman needs to recognize that she is lovely, worthy, and desirable. On the previous post, I went into detail of how to really learn to love and pamper, and treat yourself, Ladies please go read and utilize that advice. Please DO NOT go on YT and cry to the world about how you feel unloved and unworthy. Learn to love yourself and really just let your true self shine. YOU ARE ENOUGH! You don't need to be anyone else, you ARE enough..
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You guys know how I feel about Real Estate. I think it's the best, most lucrative (for most ppl) and fastest way to become wealthy. So I've decided that the 3rd wealth idea, will always be about real estate... So lets begin. Did you know that when an elderly person goes into a nursing home, or assisted living, that they often take their home? They also charge exorbitant rates that most ppl simply cannot afford. What you can do is leave literature in senior centers, or bingo halls (bulletin boards in senior type places etc) You want to let the old ppl know they can sell their home to you on a fixed rate (low rate) that will give them ongoing income until they go into a nursing home (because the home will take the income) So say for instance Market value of rent is 1200, and you pay them 600 per month for their home, you can rent it out for MV and pocket the rest minus expenses. Or if it's in really bad condition, they can deed it to you and write off on taxes, and you can call one of the We buy houses ads in your city and get a few thousand for it quickly. There are just so many million dollar ideas that ppl walk past everyday. Ladies open up your pretty eyes and see all the wealth and oppty around you....