Friday, July 28, 2017

Don't uplift and revere the men who push you down in the dirt!








Look for the man who will HONOR you regardless of his color or ethnicity. You deserve to loved and cherished, not TOLERATED!






This is a letter on a site from a woman addressing her concerns for bw, being mistreated in their own environments by the men who are supposed to uplift, and care about them. She said it all so well, that I posted her comment as a teaching oppty. I really could not have said it better myself....
Young ladies it is about RESIPROSITY!!! You should not be giving your all to someone who shows you that they have no interest in reciprocating! Someone who has NO interest in a long term, committed and loving relationship. Someone who offers only sex, while you are ardently looking for love. That's foolhardy. Yet, I see this all the time. Bw giving and giving and giving with 0 hope of obtaining what they seek. And I can tell you, that MOST women are seeking a loving committed relationship whereby she can relax, bask in the love of her husband and watch her babies grow! Unfortunately, far too many bm are NOT looking for anything that resembles this picture. Many are looking to use bw as sexual toilets, cash machines, and/or built in laundromats. It's important to understand ladies that any man will act in a less than becoming way if you allow it. However, some men (many of them men of color, unfortunately) actually will deliberately castigate, vilify, and mistreat the women who look like them out of a misguided sense of anger and intolerance because she represents the womb that made him black! I know this is all hard to believe, But SOME black men have internalized their hatred of black, and imputed it upon their racial counterparts. I want you ladies to understand that YOU DON'T OWE UNKNOWN BM A DAMN THING!! YOU OWE IT TO YOUR UNBORN CHILDREN TO FIND THE BEST FATHER AND HUSBAND YOU CAN POSSIBLY FIND, BECAUSE IT WILL IMPACT EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE!! Far too many bw feel an false sense of connection and brotherhood with strangers because they share a skin tone!!! Ladies, this is more than detrimental  to your love life, this could easily be quite dangerous to your life! All men must be vetted. NO MAN should just be allowed to come into your life all willy nilly!! Many bw are fooled because bw have always had the backs of black men, but there has been very little reciprocity in their response to bw. I advice you ladies to have the backs of the men (and ONLY those men) who have yours, regardless of color! Below, this woman summed this situation up perfectly.... 

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Her take on it.....

That's another problem! We uplift black men by calling them black kings.
And Alot of them put us down and call us black b......
Black women need to leave black men alone and please stop calling black men Kings.
That is nothing but another build up the black men but don't build up the black women speech I don't hate black men I've been married to a wonderful black man for 28 years and I have a 35 year old black son who is successful and wonderful
But these days alot of black men are not wonderful or successful And they are moving further and further away from black women Black women need to start putting their selves first and their children can either put the so-called black community and the black man at the very bottom of their list or not on their list at all Because the so-called black community and a lot of black men are very toxic to black women and this has been one of the biggest reasons, alot of black women are in the bad state that they are in. They have been manipulated and brainwashed into thinking it's got to be all black or nothing in everything in their lives for alot of black women Like I said before a lot of black men and black teen boys are doing this But there are few black man and black teen boys who still love black women and will treat them right But that is only a few compared to a lot of black men in black teen boys who don't want black women and the black women they get with they treat like dirt.

I'm not trying to offend you by the things I am saying I'm just saying stop giving black man credit We have been giving black man credit, build him up, holding him down, encouraging him, strengthening him, helping him, accepting him with all of his shortcomings, issues, problems and situations, protesting, screaming, hollering, begging, pleading, crying, pushing for the rights and the unequal treatment and the brutality being done to black men, letting them live with us when they are criminals running from the law living with us and not working and not trying to work, etc.... And look how a lot of black men are repaying black women, with abuse murder rape incest hatred making blogs videos and websites about how much they hate us calling us ugly too dark saying no one wants us saying they wish we were dead and saying that they want to kill us This is the repayment of how a lot of black men think and feel about us I know there are a few black women who are rotten too, acting a fool and not doing right. But most black women are trying to do their best and they are not rotten, acting a fool and are doing right and trying their best to live as legally and morally right as a can And black women and black teenage girls have been taught to Vet, black guys but not to the extent that she should have been. For generations and generations, from years and years ago, black women we're never taught how to fully and heavily vet black men we were only told the basics because we trusted and believed that his black skin alone was something we could trust in But this has been to our detriment unfortunately We have been told for generations and generations too heavily vet any man that was not black and not to trust them and for the most part to stay away from them

But we were not taught this in depth because no one taught our mothers and their mothers didn't teach them and those mothers didn't teach them and so on and so on Because we actually thought that we could trust alot of black men and that we could trust them and they will be there for us just like we have been there for them for generations and generations Of course we did not trust black man but we didn't get down to the nitty-gritty of how a lot of them or just downright dirty and very dangerous for us We were taught to care more about the so-called black community and black men and we we're taught that we the backbone of the so-called black community And we should not leave and we should stay there and help to build up and keep together the so-called black community while a lot of black man ran around like childish and violent and dangerous children a lot of black men were not made to have responsibilities to do the things a man is supposed to do because a lot of the black men were not there in the home either because they broke the law and went to jail or they abandoned the wife and children or girlfriend and children and now the scenario is being played out everyday in the so-called black community yes I know there is some black man in jail who are falsely accused and they committed no crime and I also know that some who have committed crimes were given harsher sentences just because they were black so I know this is wrong and not right Before a lot of black men this is not the case and this burden has been put on the black women shoulders by the so-called black community and by alot of black men Which is totally wrong the woman is supposed to be your help she is not supposed to be the backbone

God created men to be that backbone and we were supposed to be their help the main reason why the so-called black community is such a disaster right now it's because the black man is not in his rightful place as being head of the household as God has created him to be and he is out of order and when the head of household is out of order and is not in its right place it trickles down and it causes problems setbacks situations and issues and that's what is wrong with the so-called black community today yes women have been the backbone and the head of household and taking care of everything sometimes out of choice and a lot of times because she has no other choice and sometimes because her man has been convicted unfairly and or given a sentence much harsher because he's black but this is not how God created to be and everything is out of order in the so-called black community that's why everything is so bad and dangerous there black women need to do what black men have been doing for a while Move on without them move away from them and heavily vet non black men before you have a relationship with them....



made of wood are an excellent business choice. The reason is because many kids (esp boys) are very hard on their toys, and many parents are looking for good, solid, sturdy toys for their children that can even be passed on to the next youngest child. Many ppl despise having to buy the same toys again and again. On top of that wooden toys are seen as specialized, expensive, in demand, far more exclusive, and far more appealing...

To begin with, go to Amazon and type in toy blue prints or making wooden toys. Amazon is my go to for everything place, it used to be Ebay, but I was looking for a particular book one day and came upon Amazon and not only did they have the book but it was a very good price. I absolutely LOVE Amazon.... Anyway so get your book and find a designated place you can work. Now I've never done this business, however, I can tell you that if you are skilled at fixing things, or like to work with your hands. This could be something very lucrative for you.  I can tell you a way to make this business so profitable, you could easily clear 20.000 per month doing this How?  I will tell you....
 Get a website, of ppl who love woodworking or wooden toys. Find your target audience (look in facebook, Reddit, twitter etc. Basically you want to build a community of like minded people. Really be willing to help your audience with questions ( you can hire an expert to answer questions.... But this should be something that you are REALLY interested in... Get an email capture page and make sure you do capture every single email that you can.
Show your audience a project in motion. IOW, show it being BUILT from the ground up! You can use pics for this..  Let them know that when the project is 70% completed you will open the email for BIDS!!! Ppl who are into this, will be fascinated and falling over themselves trying to be the one to buy the finished project. People are naturally competitive. They know that others are going to bid, and ppl always WANT what others want!  You toy should sell for a very good price before you are finished. Give the winner something free if he pays right away. It could be a stuffed animal to go with the toy or something you can add on the toy for free (like engraving the child's name) or you could do the engraving for an extra cost! But I'm telling you, if you are COMMITTED to this, you can make a killing!! Amazon will once again have books on whatever you need.. But this is a great idea but ONLY for those who love to work with your hands and are not afraid of hard work. However, you could always get out of work carpenters to do the work for you. You have to learn to use your imagination, and persistence...
Please drop me a line, if you decide to do this, and let me know how it's working for you. Also, keep in mind, there are pre done toys and you can finish/paint/assemble  just check google....


2.  Ceramic Riches  
You can buy molds, and make your own birdbaths ceramic things of all nature. Dishes, pet supplies, garden items benches bird feeders etc. This would definitely be a LOCAL business because the cost of shipping would be prohibitive. however, you could make these homemade items and deliver them to local stores on a cost per sale basis. If you enjoy making things lovely and outdoor items, this might be a great biz for you. Now keep in mind, that Ceramic is like concrete, it's heavy so please don't try to do this with a  bad back or anything! But the beauty of this business is that ceramic looks beautiful but is quite inexpensive to make. A 5.00 item (to make) can easily sell for 35-50 as long as you do good work!!! So it's definitely worth checking out if you are so inclined. Now you can google different companies, or you can use Amazon. You know I love Amazon... But this is not a difficult business, you simply need some space and time and a good book or video to guide you and of course check prices with other companies and see what they are charging and how they are making their items..
I will give you one to get you started 
Concrete Machinery Co
PO box 99, Hickory NC 28603
704-322-7710 ask for a (MOLD CATALOG)

Some beauty tips for you lovely ladies.....
Guard against Cancer and beautify from the inside out...   (MIRACULOUS  TUMERIC!!)
For those of you who don't know TUMERIC  ( common spice) is an Excellent multi use spice that is known to prevent cancer, clean out your system, beautify your skin, regulate your system, and prevent obesity! This spice is so incredible, that if the FDA knew all the ways women use it for beauty, they would probably make it 10x more expensive! I will give you 3 ways to use Tumeric because it's just amazing!

1.  You can mix it with clove oil, or clove powder and a little Neem powder and use it as a natural toothpaste. (Ladies PLEASE use NATURAL PRODUCTS WHENEVER YOU CAN!!! THERE ARE JUST TOO MANY TOXINS IN AMERICAN PRODOCTS AND NOW THAT THEY DON'T HAVE TO EVEN INFORM YOU AS TO WHAT'S IN THEM (!!!) IT IS DOUBLY IMPORTANT THAT YOU MAKE YOUR OWN PRODUCTS WHENEVER POSSIBLE!!! 
So with this, you simply add 2 parts Tumeric and clove (which is great for healing mouth sores, bad gums, bad breath etc. Then add Neem oil if you can get it, because the Neem powder is very very bitter! I make my own toothpaste, and I can tell you, I will NOT be using the powder again! (only the oil) So you just use a clean spoon and basically pour it on your toothbrush. Don't  dip because your not trying to put your germs back into the container.  and a clean vitamin jar is fine. or some other clean container with a lid.... Tumeric will whiten your teeth in a healthy way and not a toxic rip the enamel off of your teeth and have pain for hours kind of way many whiteners do..  Just use and rinse and don't forget to clean your tongue and back of mouth....

2. Tumeric is great for a skin brightener and /or healthy light abrasion. You can actually use the same mixture from above (which is why I told you don't put your germs back in container. You can simply put a spoonful on a clean wash cloth (plz note turmeric stains and will NOT come out of white wash cloths) So just know that. But it is wonderful for the skin and will lighten dark spots, clean and gently exfoliate dead skin, and give a more radiant complexion WITHOUT CHEMICALS!!!  Then simply rinse and use a bit of mustard oil, or avocado oil, or Olive oil  (on a wet face) and gently message UP. This will replace your regular cleaser, exfoliator, and moisturizer with natural products that  will be much more effective. Ladies, remember that everything you put on your skin, is going into your system! Guard your skin, and be very weary of commercial products!

3. Tumeric for system clean out, beautiful skin and healthy body. + lose weight
Have a glass of green tea (which is EXCELLENT for the body) use a swig of honey instead of sugar and a teaspoon of cinnamon and a little tumeric.  This is an EXCELLENT drink for beautiful skin, sloughing off excess weight (must avoid soda) and cleaning out the system naturally.  You will notice your eyes getting brighter, and prettier, your skin looking smooth and younger, and (if you don't eat excess food) you Will begin to lose weight naturally! This is an excellent way to fight cancer, calm the nerves, relax, beautify, and deal with stress. Too many ppl will grab a soft drink when they are stressed and that is the worst drink you can grab!! It just does horrible things to your body, your teeth, your weight, your energy, your  mindset, your wellbeing and your stomach! Soda (soft drinks) turn into carbon dioxide in the system and makes your stomach stick out, and pokey stomachs are ONLY CUTE ON BABIES!!

So I don't want you guy too spoiled. I will probably only do the wealth every other post, or maybe beauty one week and wealth the other. You guys can let me know which you prefer...
But anyway try these tip and plz let me know how great they worked for you
And tell everyone Taylor's back, and send them on by  Thanks for tuning in, see you guys soon... TS